[quote]yes. I am another just like yourself. It's a nightmare! I told him in Nov I wanted the divorce. We are still living together. Worst nightmare of my entire life! My next hearing isn't till Nov 19th. You'll get tougher as time goes on. You deserve to be there more than him. If he doesn't leave..it's his choice. I think the arguements are tough on the kids though. It is hard not to want to shout off the roof tops sometimes that's the worst part. [/quote]

Well we have no arguements. We do not talk to eachother at all....I have tried to explain that my husband does not participate in our childs life. I am the one who takes him to school, picks him up (fortunately my job is very understanding) and then he and I are up stairs in the evenings doing homework. My husband comes and goes wherever/whenever he wants. My child has special needs so it complicates things, but I have gotten a bit easier with the knowledge that this one day will be over with.

He may desire to buy me out, but he is being so stubborn with every issue...I just don't know if I even want to allow him to. I would not beable to afford the home..and the custody issue has not been decided yet either. ....

It is very difficult to live this way..but helps knowing I am not the only one....