I have Had a horrible Ten year marriage, but I will do it all over to Have my two boys. Don't look at the negative . How blessed are you to have two beautiful children. It is tougher than hell having to put children through this kind of pain but sometimes divorce is the only way to save your children, And teach them how to have self respect and value themselves as good people.And its not ok to cheat or disrespect women. If I can teach one thing to my boys is that people and women are valuable .