Hi delirious,

I am in Portland also. You are not alone. This is a good place with a lot of great people that offer their support. I am new to all this. I have only been separated from my wife for a month now. We haven’t filed for divorce yet but it will be soon. I hope everything goes all right with filing your papers and you get everything worked out with the kids. I admire you for what you are doing. We don’t have kids so I can’t imagine how difficult it is. Wish I could answer some of your questions but I am sure there will be someone here who can.

Take care.