Relatively far along. Been to domestic relations where all they do is review your tax return, mine was from 2006 where I made $20k more than I did in 2007. I am on the hook for the entire mortgage, home equity and pre-school payments plus another $2587 for CS and Support. Our support meeting in front of the court is scheduled for March 3rd and at least I am able to present evidence at that time. We did the mediation without success, and at the custody concilation meeting I got hammered because she is a stay at home mom, living in a huge house which I pay for and because of the kids ages they though it was best that she get primary custody even though I asked for joint custody. Not only has she already violated the court order on three separate occassions in less than three weeks, I was informed this evening that she will be taking a vacation Wednesday-Sunday and that I can either have the kids or they will be staying elsewhere during the time when she is away. Now I have to take the kids over a five day period and still try and work during this time. Meanwhile she will be spending well over $1500 on her vacation of which I financed entirely. She even went as far to tell me she purchased the airline tickets for her new boyfriend. Knowing what I know now, I am not certain what I would have done.