boy she has periods of in and out. She went from all my grandmothers stuff being marital, to saying she would never take it and it's mine, and now she said in theory, some stuff was acquired during the marriage and she may be 'nice' and not try to claim it. she had the &alls to ask me for a cabinet my aunt gave me during the marriage (a lot of her gifts etc are in there). Thankfully there is really no other 'common' furniture like that in the house (from living relatives) and i already told her no way can she have the cabinet. So hopefully she gets the message. She whined that ill be making out in the deal and i maybe should have given it to her.

Well DUH, i had a 'mostly ' full house when i even met her. Of course i had a kitchen table, dining room table etc etc. Boy next relationship i'm taking pics of the entire house, giving the woman copies and we are getting a notarized statement that all that is mine and any piece we do acquire is going to be individually decided as we buy it ;) (just kidding of course)

I guess she has to fight back in the way she knows how, thinking what i value and trying to take it. Too bad all she has to do all day is think and im sure her mind wanders.

some good news...i checked caller ID and she got a call from her prospective atty last week. So maybe she will hire him as soon as the papers get served :) and we can move this along