I'm wondering if that's what I should do to get my divorce over quickly. Offer some cash to be done and out. My stbx is piss poor, but he's the one who left the marriage, he's the one who racked up the bills. I think I just need to cut my losses and run. Pony up the cash and run. Plus, it would save some lawyers fees in the long run. I have no idea how my stbx is paying his lawyer! I just want to be done and over with this mess.