[quote]Thanks for your feedback. We met yesterday to go over property division and he is appearing quite down. I am not trying to get more than what I am leagally entitled to, and I am being quite liberal on his price quotes for items he is keeping and not including his hunting, fishing, tools, horses etc. in our settlement. He is keeping the house and by that alone is getting a ton of misc. that it is not worth the time and effort to put prices on. He still trully belives that I am the one comming out ahead and that is without me getting any of his retirement benefits. [/quote]

But you will be getting some of his retirement benefits. To the tune of 50% of any amount that was contributed to the retirement funds during the marriage plus anything that was earned on the monies that were contributed.

My suggestion, get an attorney. A do it yourself divorce works real well when there aren't any assets to split. But there are in your case.