We live in equitable distribution state. Thing is he wants to protect his business, from who - me? I've been raising family, taking care of everything while he's babying his business and growing it. It just makes me mad. And how about that - now his business evaluated one price, and it grows very fast since its really successful one. Lets take worst scenario - if I sign a postnup and divorce happens I only get what I sign for 10 years ago, or so. I don't see it fair at all. Does not look to good. And besides all that, his intentions are not very bright, because he wants to divide our marital house 50-50 and then later, as soon as I'd sign a postnup, he'd go ahead and purhase a huge mansion, but just on his name on the title. In case of a big mess, he walks out with that property, 1/2 of present and all that heavy bag of dough, he'd make in the future. As for me - I'd just take my 4 kids , take 1/2 of all we had back then, bow and dissapear.... No, it's somehow makes me puke when I think about this being fair.
In addition - we're married 5 years, 4 kids later and tons of money(it's all in business, and I don't see it anyway) my husband changed to the worst side. Money hungry type.