[quote]He stated very clear - if I don't sign -he imidiately files for divorce.At this point he has two paper work waiting, postnuptial and papers ready to be filed for divorce, what a great pitbull lawyer he has!
Should I go ahead and share my life with person like that at all? I a.m in very sad situation here, I wish I would not feel anything for him, would be way easier [/quote]

Wow, I know what I would do if I were in your shoes. And that is let him file for divorce. In an equitable distribution state, you would probably end up with more of the assets, child support and spousal support. And he would end up with more of the debt.

And he knows this. His attorney knows this.

That's why he said what he did. He's trying to bully you into signing. Don't. Especially if you haven't had a lawyer look it over.