well see the thing is, i totally let him screw me and only to protect my children's emotional welfare. I didn't fight for anything monetarily so he basically has all and i nothing.
the divorce papers are completely in his favor.
plus he was violent w me and got a restraining order when i decided to leave as didnt trust what he would do.
just tired of him monopolizing all the time w the kids, and i cant even afford to take them to dinner.