I'm going to met with attorney next Friday, I guess will take from there. As for comment from previous writtings - what damage I've done, to whom? My children know about postnuptial, because it has been said loud, in front of kids. They just make up their own opinion about the situation. Should I still try to paint my husband as a very honest, genuine person? They see it , I can not lie to them, my husband tells if your mom does not sign - we will have to divorce! And he did. My gut feeling never lies...