6 mos into a divorce - preparing financial disclosures. Naturally, STBX has nothing but debt in her name. I was granted stock options and restricted stock units by my employer during the marriage that haven't vested yet. Are these subject to division? I'm naively hoping they aren't because I would never realize the value if I were to change jobs.

Also, I have approximately $40,000 in my 401k. Balance was around $12,000 before we married and my employer added $6,000 after the date of separation. Will we divide the entire balance or the $24,000 difference between date of marriage/separation.

We're in California. Thanks.