I am new here and need all the support I can find. My divorce was final April 2007. We were married for 32 years, he was abusive and controlling. I was a stay at home Mom to our 5 kids. Our property settlement was almost fair, I got my freedom, he got what he wanted of our household items. But, I realized too late that I am entitled to half his pension. Recently I've been diagnosed with cancer and really need the $1100 a month pension payment. He is fighting me on this. My attorney is taking too long...over 8 months. He is not answering my calls or correspondence. Also, the nearly $100K investment settlement (my half) still has not happened. I need the $$ now for medical bills.

Where do I go from here? I've paid the attorney and now, still not settled.
Help!