my stbx is driving a vehicle signed by both of us. My car is only in my name. He was supposed to be paying his truck loan, I was supposed to be paying my car loan. I have done my part... I think the truck got reposessed recently since I had no means to pay all the back payments that were due.

I informed my stbx 3 months after he asked for the divorce that I would no longer be paying his insurance. He had time (1 1/2 months) to acquire his own insurance. I dont' know whether or not he did. And, the bank is unaware whether or not he has insurance. So, it didn't do anything to the loan.

I don't know if what I did was legal (taking the truck off the insurance) but I did it anyway. I was tired of being an enabler and always bailing out my stbx. The ins co wouldn't take his name off the policy until they get proof he (as a person) is insured elsewhere. I think that's goofy, but it costs me no more to have his "name" on the policy so there it stays.