[quote]damm direct deposit!
and
my attorney wants me to pay down some more of my bill
and
i want to pay off my CC.

arugh! [/quote]

Just where did the money go? Was it a joint account?

If this divorce isn't final by the end of this year and you end up filing jointly again, get a paper check. Don't let it go direct deposit. Sign it at the same time as your jerk of a stbx does and mail it right there. Don't give him a chance to change it to direct deposit after you sign it.

And before you sign any refund check, make sure that he has already given you your portion of any refund ahead of time.

And be sure to let your attorney know that he took all of the stimulus. And that you were planning on paying towards what you owe with your portion of it.

Your ex is an [censored].