I have been separted since nov of 05, my X left me and our little girl who was 5 mths old at the time and i have not seen nor heard from him since. In south carolina you have to be in the state for a year before you can file so i had to wait a year to file, after i filed my lawyer can't seem to find my X...They said that they served him the divorce papers at his familys house...that was good...and i got a court date, and i thought it was finally comming to an end...but it seems that when i showed up at the court on the day of my hearing..my lawyer asked for a continunce and didn't inform me...it seems that they say they cannot proceed because they couldn't serve him with the papers for the court date...so now i am in a holding pattern...I have called my lawyer too many times to count and i am not getting anywhere...i dont have the money to hire another lawyer...so i am wondering if anyone out there has any sugestions about what to do...is there anything i can do about not being able to find him...it is going on 3 years almost...any ideas would be great...Thanks