Ap: you are obviously the step dad...I am a SM and have a 14 year old SS that is my husband's youngest...his bio mom left the marriage and the family about 10 years ago...SS has not seen her in about 7 years...my husband carries a lot of guilt for this loss and in turn he replaced the loss with his "love" which in turn is basically saying he has spoiled the shit out of my SS...talk about a kid that has no boundaries or responsibility or consequences...he gets an allowance for chores that I do...he goes "out" every weekend and only has phone contact with my husband...he sets the schedule and my husband follows it...I am trying to raise my kids in the middle of this chaos...husband does not get that he is supposed to be the role model and set the rules and ensure they are followed...son gets rewards for things that are never done or ever accomplished...gets the reward "in advance" and the does not do what he promised to do...

But I can't complain about the lack of sex on this end...getting plenty of that happy to say...feel free to PM me anytime...(: