[quote]Believe me he has put his foot down more than once with her. After that for awhile she will talk directly with him and then before you know she is sending me an email.

Threats: I will call your boss and tell him you are not paying child support (totally untrue). [/quote]

An effective response is: Okay, cause me to lose my job and your child support goes down.

Not to mention that if she continues to harass you and follows through with contacting your husband's employer, a restraining order may be called for.