I am dating this guy who is married and wants a divorce. I don't know all the details of their marriage but I'll share what I know. Basically, I'm looking for advice to try and help him get the ball rolling so that we can move forward with our relationship.

They've only been married for about 3 years and have 3 children together. He had moved out about a year ago for a little while but then moved back in with her because she was having complications with her last pregnancy. He was helping take care of their other children because she couldn't do anything. Anyway, they leased an apt together and he's the main person on the lease but her name is also on the lease(as a resident I guess). The lease isn't up until august. He said he's contacted a lawyer before and that he was told they couldn't start the divorce process while still living together. He hasn't spoken to a lawyer since. He obviously can't leave because he's the person who signed the lease and she is refusing to leave until the lease is up. I mean, why would she leave? He is still supporting her 100% even though she is able to get a job now. He really can't afford to continue to let her live there and get his own place because he would have to pay for everything. She wants a divorce as well but is being spiteful beause she knows she has the advantage.

There is more to the story, but if anyone has any advice on what he can do, it would be appreciated. Thanks!