faith is right, about the fear of the unknown. The money you put into the house before you got married is yours if you can prove it was your money. Everything you had before you got married, that you can prove, is yours. Now for the bad part. Everthing you invested in or bought after you married is half his. He will get state standerd visitation unless he is abusive. The child support paid or not has nothing to do with visits. Remember that always. Visitation varies depending on distance. I think you were married less then 10 years so there is no alamony in your case.