First thing you need to do is try and get you support lowered. Call the AG office and see if they can help with that. I would also ask your X if she would be willing to set down with you at the AG office and go over what you have paid. Until then everything you do pay needs to go through the AG office. If she wants to give the money back to you thats her biz not the AG but the AG office has to track that you made the payment. This is something that needs to be addressed before it gets out of hand. I'm suprised the AG office leaned your account for a few months. I can't even get then to do the employe with holding already in the court orders.