You can schedule an appointment with the specific Attorney General's office that is handling your case and ask for a review of your case (get the location and number by calling the 800#). Your ex will need to accompany you and if you both agree to the new terms the AG's office will modify the order. It's better all the way around for the parties to be in agreement; the AG's office is there to make sure the child's interests are protected according to the law. Best of luck. You are very fortunate to have such a great relationship with the ex--the child really benefits from that.