We both have attorneys at this point. We have tried counseling for the last couple of years to no avail. Here are the answers to your questions.

1. I filed a no-fault divorce on the grounds of incompatability and irreconcilable differences.

2.All of our assets are titled together. All of our assets were purchased together. We carry very little debt. Our house is paid off in full. I do have all records of purchases. The only debt we have is a boat for 35K and a suburban for 18K.

3. We were married for just under 18 years.

4. Neither of us were ever in the military.

5.Not retired, disabled or such.

6. My wife and my 15 year old son have both been diagnosed as clinically depressed.

Thanks for any advice and help, its much appreciated. Guess my main question for this thread is how to legally get the boys out of her house. I am assuming that I will need a court order. For that to happen wouldn't a psychological evaluation of her and the boys need to be done? Once again thanks!