So I've been married for about two years. I dont think it was the best thing to do. I got pregnant and thought at the time that it was a good idea. Well after marriage he started to be verbally abusive and when he'd get mad he'd choke me. He calls me chunky and makes me feel like crap and I've taken it for a while. Finally one day I lashed out and hit him and he punched me in the eye, upercutted me and choked me out twice. He has since then Hit me two weeks ago cuz we got in another fight, I didnt hit him, I just grabbed his sweater and he felt the need to hit me in my ear. We have 1 child who is two years old. I wanna leave and have been thinking about it for months. He says if I leave he will take his son with him to california and will win. I was thinking of packing and leaving when he's away. I just need some tips cuz no one is really giving me any advice and Im frustrated and I dont like being around him.