See that's the thing...NOTHING has been filed yet. At this point it's just him living in one house and me living in another with the kids. I have legitimate reasons for wanting to move to virginia. If I were to move them now and set up residency in Virginia for the children and I before anything is filed, I'm just wondering if the laws would be more on my side there or here? At this point I don't think a court can stop me becuase there IS no pending action or custody order. But I'm in the process of checking into restraining orders as well.