Ok, so do I need to get a lawyer? Or can I just fly over there to VA and stand before the judge? I talked to the court and they said that there is no court date that her attorney has sent papers that need to be accepted by service before there can be a court date? I am so lost. Doees anyone know some fair and decent priced lawyers in norfolk that I could talk to? She gets so much money from me already that I dont have much to spend. Thanks!