Well, I didn't exactly get the comfort I'd hoped for. She told me that if the judge went by the criteria that's supposed to be used, I would get custody due to the children's ages and the fact that I was the caretaker before the separation. However, she also said that the judge doesn't always use those criteria, even though it's supposed to be used. She also figured up that if he does push it, I could wind up paying him a very minimal amount of child support (somewhere in the neighborhood of $25/month)...nothing really worth him pushing the issue. I just don't know what to do. I don't know whether to fight the custody issue or not. I don't know if the outcome will be worth the fight.