My stbx will not settle ANYTHING out of court.

We are both loving parents who have been equally involved in our 14 y.o. sons life.

My stbx is also very controlling and narcasistic to the point were I believe she has a mental disorder. She has also been doing and saying things in an insinuation type manner to try and alienate my son from me.
I have been documenting everything and have given it all to my attorney.

She initiated the divorce, is well educated with a higher earning capacity than me but has not worked for 13 years and has not pursed a job or further education since filing in May. Also, she was encourged by the manager of a store in our town to apply for an asst. managers position that was available, back in July, but she did not persue it.

I have asked for alternating 7 day periods, w/ mid week time, with joint custody and joint placement. In Wisconsin I know the judge will have to order placement with one or the other. Does anyone know what the visitation schedule may look like?
DO I HAVE A CHANCE OF GETTING PLACEMENT?
I am self employed with little business assets or debt and my schedule is very flexible and can be adapted to my sons needs, again he is 14 y.o. and in high school. I work in the town we live in, we will both still be living in the same town and school district.

Would the judge order alt. 7 day periods w/ mid week time?
If so would he order child support to the parent w/ placement?
Would the judge likely order placement with me because he is a teen aged boy, I have always been very involved in his life and can better financially provide for him, especially when she has not pursued anything in the way of a job in the past 8 months (will be 9 months by the time we have our divorce hearing) I would think a judge would see this as very irresponsible on her part. ?????
My taxable income is around $20,000.00.
The judge we have is a 60 something conservative male.

any insight would be greatly appreciated!!