WOW...sounds similar to my situation. I'm not quite where you are at yet, but I wondered how I would get him out of the house (since I have no where to go)and I've thought about moving to another bedroom. My husband is emotionally and verbally abusive and seems bent on hurting me and our marriage. I am a work at home mom with two small businesses in CA and have been married 13 years. I dont make enough to support our 2 kids and the bills. Please let us know how it turns out for you.