Hi and thanks for your input. for me getting the harley that is paid for(by me) I leave the marriage with no debts. He gets the house and the payments,taxes and insurance for the next 7 years. I think this little stunt he tried to pull really opened my eyes, I have always gave more then he finacially and now he will have to get it elswhere. It just hurts so much that I could have loved a man that could even think of asking such a question in my state of mind. to me this is just another form of abuse!