I'm sick to my stomach, I feel so alone. Now what?

My husband married me 3 years ago, I thought I finally found true love....now he tells me he doesn't want me anymore and wants to start getting devorce.
I was very sick when he met me, he was so willing to pay for all medical bills, but now all he does is ell at me about money. We have money, but I'm not allowed to have anything to do with it, no say, etc. The other night I had to go to do some work, I had no gas and he refussed to give me any money to get there. I ran out of gas. He hells because he works too much, then next month he hells because he's not getting enough hours it goes like this over and over again. We can go for weeks with no milk, etc. just cause "we have no money". He always has 5000.00-7000.00 balance in his account.

I can't take it any more and really scared. My name isn't on anything, he doesn't trust women. Where do I stand?