Tell her that the feeling for a booty call or missing her MAY come back after you get over her refusal to TRY to stop smoking to the extent that she ruined the remote control, after you get over $15K missing from the bank account, after you get over her absolute refusal to do anything for herself and demanded that you be her caregiver.

Tell her that after the two fo you are apart for a while and she works on her issues FOR HERSELF and not for you, because the time to do it for you is over... then maybe the two of you will find your way back to each other, but for not, she has wrung every bit of emotion out of you and it's going to take a while of you paying attention to your own needs (and not hers) before it comes back.