what an interesting comment she made this afternoon. We were talking about our cat and she said she isnt leaving here until he dies or we put him to sleep.

now last year he was really sick and is still way to thin, but in most respects he seems healthy to me. But i'm sure last year if we didnt pay the 1500 to the vet, he would have died. But anyhow, i just thought it was bizarre of her to say. Plus then later i found out if she moved in with her sis, cant take the cat but if moves in with her brother she could.

BUT she believes that he wouldnt make the 4 hour drive even with the vets pill they give out. So i'm sure she sees that drive as his death as well.

What sucks is , without her here, he'd be alone all day and he's so used to her and hated when she went away and barely ate. So this is like no win and i hate it