ugh she's been pressing me big time for the REASON i'm getting a divorce...wasnt happy with any of my answers before now. So i said i dont want to be mean but i cant see myself growing old with you and being happy. She seemed to accept that answer . She also said she wish it just would be something like i fell in love with another woman, she could handle that. I assured her my plan was to be alone, i'm not leaving her for another woman. I just didnt have the heart to tell her when i was alone when she was away i felt so much relieve of stress.

she also stated 'before this is all over, i have to get mad at you otherwise i'll never be able to leave'

so is this her going thru normal processing and justification. I can deal with that because i do believe part of the D process is for me to help her as much as i can. Trying to be a good hubby to the end