He's 37 yrs old. And I know he sounds like he's 12. This is it, I can't handle the yo-yoing, and this crap behavior. Last weekend when he left, his mom told him that for him to stay he has to straighten up, that she's not going to take the pacing and everything he does. When he left me in 98, and he came back 6 months later, he had gotten a nice job with Lowe's hardware, and he was good for a few months, then someone there pissed him off and he never went back. I don't like people telling me what to do either, but dang, when you work for someone else, that's the way it is, they tell you what to do and you do it. I'll be around here for along time. I can't handle him and his problems anymore. I tried....