Trudy....what problems does your husband have that his parents don't want him unless he straightens out? Does he have a substance abuse problem? Or perhaps he is going through a mental breakdown of some sorts? FOr him to keep leaving and coming back, there must be some deep issues he is struggling with. Or perhps he is with other women and when that doesn't work the way he wants it to, he comes back to you? I don't mean to be hurtful and blunt, but there must be more going on....