How can I go about suing my husband's mistress for her part in destroying my marriage. I just found out 4 weeks ago that my husband had been having an affair for 1 1/2 years and may possibly have a child with this woman. We have been married for 6 years and have 3 children. I only found out because a letter from a child support collection agency came in the mail. I don't even think he would have told me if I didn't see the letter. I really don't know what to do. I feel trapped. I just had my third child in Oct 2007. I really need someone to talk too. I can't even tell my family or friends about this. I feel so betrayed and used. He claims he cheated because we were having problems at that time and he didn't know what else to do. I never even knew we were having problems, because he never talked to me about them. He would get mad be silent, then later on get over whatever he was mad about and just have all these mood swings. I did everything I could to be a good wife and mother. Now that I found out about the affair he wants me to stand by his side and act like nothing happened. I wonder if he would do the same if the shoe was on the other foot! Any advice would be appreciated. I live in GA.