Guitar, I know you don't like meeting via internet or chat.. but I'm thinkin the kind of girl you want right now might be found there. I'm talkin yahoo chat rooms - married and lonely, etc... alot of people in there want nothing more than superficial good times.. distractions.. and they are less likely to get emotionally involved or hurt. That being said.. that's also the turnoff of such places. I wish you the best. I don't mean to sound bossy or judgemental. Its just that I have been divorced a year now, and been out in this dating world, and its really nice to meet a guy who is legit... not saying your not, but if you think about your ex EVERY day still, you're not ready to meet someone else.