Kent,

You are 100% correct to tread cautiously with this woman. Two scenarios come to mind. A. She is still hoping that somehow things will work out for the two of them or B. She is wanting to remain connected and try to avoid a nasty court battle.

I am sure there may be other possible reasons. Whatever it may be, until she has things figured out and shows signs of finally moving on, you don't want to be in the middle of it.

Sure, if you feel like it, offer advice if asked. Don't rush to her rescue. She really needs to do this on her own. You know that all too well. Another person can offer support and encouragement, but at the end of the day, this is her marriage/divorce that she needs to work through and heal from.

Whatever happened to the lady who was going away for a month? What about the new teacher at your school this year, I don't recall an update. Sure, call me noisy, but I am interested and you don't even have to share any intimate details. Just a general summary will do nicely.

You are doing great post divorce and hey, your Iceland trip is not far off now, is it? Remember we want to hear all about that trip of a lifetime, once you get back.

Hugs and Just Keep Being The Great Man You Are!
Nish