The woman I've been dating for a year now is completely opposite of my ex...which is a good sign, because with my ex, I don't think I could have picked somebody who was more wrong for me (and me for her)if I had actually set out to do so! lol.

I don't think that it's so much that I looked for somebody different than my ex, but more that I was young, foolish and impulsive back then, now that I'm older, more mature, and more thoughtful about these things I was able to simply make a better choice...