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Hey...Atleast you know what you need. Knowing you need someone that is physically attractive is not bad to know. If you read the book, "His needs, Her needs", one of the top five most important needs for men is a partner who is physically attractive to them so you're not much different from any other male out there.

Have you joined a gym at all? Or maybe sign up for some recreational sports teams in your area. This could give you an opportunity to meet people that take care of themselves physically. How about yoga/pilates? Don't laugh! There are tons of attractive women in those classes! And, I know a lot of men who do those classes and really enjoy them.

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Yes, I'm a member of a gym. Unfortunately, it's filled with obese men/women. There's a handful of good looking women there, but they are all married. I'm friends with their husbands.

I also train Jujitsu. Unfortunately, its mostly men. But, it is what's been helping me cope with this divorce crap, so I'm not about to drop it so I can take yoga/pilates.