[quote]"another unfortunate thing is that this is what men do."

Is this in a undiscoverd gene, or just the guys you've chosen in your life? [/quote]

Statistics don't lie, and you're right, it has also been the result of poor choices. I'm not a man hater, I just think it's rediculous what a man will allow of his behavior. After not seeing a child for years, either he won't sign over the rights of a child because he thinks it's a battle with the mother; or, he pops back into the child's life briefly, just for his own personal gratification, so he can say how much he "loves that kid". If you are not one of these guys, which I'd like to think that most every guy on here isn't (otherwise, why would you even be interested in this type of forum), then kudos to you. But if you are, apparently you're my type. How you doin?