I have been married for 27 years. Recently my wife told me she has been having an affair with my best friend for the past 5 years. I have been to one counseling session with her and found out she has been having affairs for 17 of the 27 years. Since I believe that Kansas is a 50/50 state on assets I was wondering about her getting 50% of an investment I have from profit sharing at a previous job in the 80's. When I left that company we had been married for 6 years and I rolled the profit sharing over into an IRA in my name. Any insight you could offer would be appreciated.