I am rated as total and perminant disabled at 100 Percent with the VA. SHe worked as a teacher in early childhood ed 5 years ago. Her license is still active. To be honest, I dont have the energy due to disability to co parent. Believe me, I wish I did. I also have my son from my first marriage. I have primary custody of him. he is 16. Here is something new. My wife Stated last night that she could force the sale of the house. It is in both of our names and while she can and will move in with her parents, I have no where else to go. Can she force me out of the house? I hate that this is turning ugly.