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I don't think what you are proposing is illegal, but if your ex asks for discovery, you ignore it, and she said you have a couple oil derricks going, what do you think the judge is going to do if you ignore everything, and don't show up?
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To ask for discovery, she would have to have a lawyer and she doesn't have the money to hire one, does not qualify for legal aid because there is no abuse involved, and no one will lend her any money because she has no credit. The state BAR will not authorize Pro Bono legal work for family law, and it is against the rules for a third party to finance a divorce, by giving her the funds, in Texas. Oh, yes, it is also illegal to take contingency fees for family law work here.

She understands all this, and will be willing to totally cooperate with me in this way, even without my having to get too explicit about the possible consequences to her if she doesn't.