I'm thinking of divorce. Been married for 11 years. Got married at 22 yrs old. Been in marriage counceling twice. 1st time was the 1st year of marriage. I just recently found out that he was thinking about moving out in the summer because he wasn't "getting any"....that and I did loose his trust by kissing another guy, but I haven't felt like we have had a marriage in a long time. (no excuse!) I talk to him about it all the time, but he really isn't my type of guy, and really never was. I was in love with the thought of being married instead of being in love with the man I was marrying. Then as we talk about the fact that we have 2 children and we are good friends that maybe it is best for us to leave now as friends. Then today he tells me I'm going through a mid life crisis and that I don't know what I want because he wants and thinks it can work....WHAT????

I'm just looking to see if it really is ok for me to say I tried and I don't think it's going to work.

Oh, he still lives in the house and kids have no idea how we feel. I can't finacially do it on my own right now until my youngest is in 1st grade (1 1/2 yrs from now). What am I going to do?? I don't see us together forever.

Sorry for rambling...........