Once again, thank you for the responses. I am realizing that perhaps this wasn't out of the blue, and that signs were there that we were not connecting like we once did.

And I am taking steps to take care of myself...the psychologist appointment being a big step for me. But I still feel as though we belong together, that we are a tremendous team. And, although it will be hard, I know that we can get through it. As long as she is willing.

Her test is today. She is supposed to call me and let me know how it went. I am hoping for good news...one day at a time.

Thank you for this quote newlife. This makes so much sense to me. I just hope it is not too late to make sense to my wife.