Thanks for the advice. I'm still hurting, I've never been in a situation like this and it's heartbreaking for me. Sad part is that we've only been married for a year and a half. dated for three years b4 we got married. I was pregnant b4 we got married in Feb and then had our son in Jun. but it just seems like everything is going downhill from that time. He says he wants to work it out but then doesn't want to talk it over. Says he's just stressed from work and all but i think he just making excuses. I don't know.