I understand what you are going through, Mfergel and I both have the same situation. My wife left me for another man three days after she wanted a separation. Now 54 days later she is living with him. Well, it only took 14 days for "peter" the new guy to move in her apartment. The best thing that I did for myself to move on was to just give her space. NO CONTACT. I don't call her, text message her, no email, no nothing. She hates it. I can tell. I have seen her drive by my house, she calls me all the time to see how I am. But I just keep it simple. I have filed for divorce now, because how can I ever take her back after someone elses Di*k has been inside her??? Seriously man!! Why I am waiting around for something to happen that may or may not happen. I have hope, but I just don't want to waste anymore time taking care of me. So my suggestion to you, TAKE CARE OF YOU!! Go out and buy yourself something nice. Maybe some new clothes, a new watch, TV. If you don't have a whole lot of funds like me, then go to the gym everyday. I have bad days and good day. Example, last night was a bad night. I cried for a few hours, but today I have a clear head, and have a content smile on my face. Good luck man, but like Mfergel said, strap in, it will be a bumpy ride!! But we are all here for you! Remember that.