Phyz:

Good show...I wish I had the balls for that from the start.

My stbx had recently told me: "I asked for time and space, and you didn't give it to me, so now we're past that point."

My reply was silence...and still is. She wants time and space? Have at it...ALL the time and space you want..as in, forever.

Should have thought about that before you said "till death do us part", biatch. Since when is it okay to just walk out and say "leave me the f*ck alone until I decide its okay for you to talk to me again"?!

Last time I checked, never. That's NOT how a relationship, or marriage, works. So....I'm leaving her the f*ck alone permanantly....just what she wanted.

She can have all the time and space she wants with someone else...I'm NOBODY'S doormat.

Waiting until AFTER you are married is NOT the time to "find yourself"...nor is it the appropriate time to figure out if you really want to be married in the first place or not. Once you are married is NOT the time to suddenly go "wait a minute...can we, like, live apart again so I can decide if I want to stay married?"

No, thanks. You either honor the VOWS you took or you do not. As Master Yoda said "Do or do not. There is no try."